What happens inside these curious and transgressive places
If you have considered experiencing a naturist spa at least once in your life, this article will make your final decision once and for all.
What do people think?
The misconceptions around naturist spas are all true. Just as it is also true that no one is obliged to do anything against his or her will. Free will, respect and education reign. Be wary of those who tell you to go there only to enjoy relaxation. There are quite a few spas that are much better equipped than naturist spas and do not involve nudity. The truth is that most people frequent these places because they crave something beyond soaking in the hot tub. The truth is that, like you, they are curious, they want to try new experiences, they want to have an adventure. Then let’s face it, there are also those who go there with the clear and only intent to get laid. Should I not have said that? But yes we all know that.
Sex is a step waiting for you on the threshold of the naturist spa. Some climb over it, only to return to it later; others climb right over it without a second thought. Naturist spas are nothing more than Private Clubs, the only difference being that you undress right away. The next time you hear comments such as “ew people fuck each other” or “bleh without underwear inside the water where you also dive,” know that they are right.
But so how does it work inside?
Once you are a member, you can access the locker rooms; they almost always give you towels or a bathrobe and slippers. Do I have to take my clothes off? Yes. Don’t be like me who is always naked, but once I thought better of wearing a one-piece bathing suit, by the time I realized I was in a naturist pool it was too late and it was embarrassing to be the only one covered. Of course, it didn’t take me long then to adapt to the environment and undress.
If you are lucky and there are not too many people you are able to enjoy a first part where you actually try out the various relaxation areas. But don’t rejoice too much because as soon as you feel yourself being pampered by the bubbles of the hot tub, there slips into the tub, right by your side, a fat guy with all his attributes dangling, just waiting to make your acquaintance (at best).
After steeping yourself in hot water, sweating for three minutes in the sauna and risking collapse in the steam room, you will feel like looking around in search of something else. After all, that is what you are here for. You, like everyone else, will also want to browse, and there are dedicated areas to do so. Generally, amplexions are strictly forbidden in comfort zones. Depending on the venue, the areas devoted to “games” are more or less cozy and clean. Again depending on the venue, and even the evening, people may be more or less in line with your target audience.
At this point it is only up to you to decide what to do. You can simply stay and watch, get into the games while still remaining secluded or by jumping in with other couples. Maybe this is not the time and you will come back another time. Or you will run away never to return.
Why go there.
If you are a couple new to the environment and perhaps you are just at the stage where you would like to experience something with your partner(s), but you are not quite sure what, the Naturist Spa might be a good compromise. We might call it a soft way to tiptoe into the fantastic world of libertinism. Especially if you decide to go there in the afternoon. First couple experiments are not always easy experiences, which is why it is important to be in the right place. Spas all in all give you the opportunity to each act in your own time while leaving ample room for calm.
Afternoon or evening?
As I said, in the afternoon you will most likely find the scenario I have described so far: a limited number of people, a general relaxed atmosphere, sex with your timing.
About the number of people: being in a libertine environment with only a few people has its pros and cons. The virtue of being in a semi-deserted spa is definitely the ability to enjoy the wellness areas. I also find it encouraging (if you are a novice) to approach sexual intercourse without the crush of people circling you at the first hint of sex. There is none…it creates a more intimate and comforting environment.
The cons: the choice of people with whom to engage in conversation or fuck is obviously limited, “You either eat ‘this soup or you jump out the window.” It is not exactly certain that those present besides you will be to your liking (aesthetic and/or intellectual).
The evening slot can go well into the night, and you will most likely find yourself thrown into something much more like a Club Privé rather than a naturist spa. There is usually no shortage of music, drinking alcohol, dancing and, of course, sex. The number of people in attendance is quite large, and there is never a shortage of singles (except for the evenings reserved for couples). I happened to see the hot tubs completely empty because sometimes couples are so engrossed in having fun that they don’t set foot in the spa areas at all. Many people equals a wide choice of people to entertain with, which is directly proportional to the success of the evening. Unfortunately, however, like any crowded place, you may feel a tad overwhelmed, especially should you decide to try the Privé areas.
Personally, I don’t like naturist spas and don’t frequent them practically anymore for a variety of reasons. The judgment, however, is really subjective. Like asking someone who has just returned from a trip whether they enjoyed it or not. De gustibus non disputandum est.
Dispassionate advice
Before you experience a naturist spa inquire well about the type of evening they have organized and in general about the target clientele that frequents that particular place. Read reviews, forums or ask me directly, I will be happy to help you. Informing yourself well will be crucial to the success of the evening, and in case of a fiasco, don’t worry, the good stuff will come, and when it does, you won’t be able to help yourself.
Mia
